A former college professor of mine used to always say that we lived in a “laissez-faire” racist society. What she meant was racism was allowed to exist in a subtle, hidden manner. Laissez-faire racism existed in the form of affirmative action, on the job, at school, etc. I personally had not experienced said racism, or so I thought…
As I grew into adulthood, I saw this concept evidenced more and more in society. Though many of my white, male friends and acquaintances may disagree, there is a such thing as white privilege. I have been witness to instances where women and minorities have had to defend themselves simply because of what they look like. I have personally witnessed women and minorities having to work a little harder than their male counterparts to get a promotion at work. I’ve seen persons of color be judged before they open their mouths.
More recently (and by recent I mean since the election of a bi-racial man to the office of President of the United States), laissez-faire racism has seemed to materialize in the form of “freedom of speech.” I’m all about folk expressing themselves and stating what they choose to believe – but I find it quite concerning when people take what they claim as their right to physically display bigotry, hatred and injustice.
Like many, I was extremely disturbed by the events that took place in Charlottesville, VA this weekend. Not just because a white-supremacist, neo-Nazi group was allowed to assemble to display bigotry and hatred; not just because someone was killed and many others hurt; not just because this country’s own president initially refused to call the crime what it was; but because these “protestors” thought is was OK to bring weapons to what was supposed to be a peaceful event. Because these “protestors” wanted their opportunity to stand up for what they believe in, yet the people who opposed their hatred and bigotry were denied their right to stand. “Freedom of Speech” has allowed persons to show their true colors – to show their hate and disdain toward others who don’t think, look, or act like them. It’s allowed people to demonstrate their pure, unadulterated hatred toward other human beings who don’t believe in what they believe.
Quite frankly, I’m tired of it all! I’m tired of it being OK to for one group to promote hatred and another group to be condemned for thinking differently. I’m tired of the double-standards in American Society. I’m sick of feeling like because I am a black female I have to walk around on eggshells so I don’t get labeled. I’m tired of having to justify the actions of my people while others get to parade around foolishly under a bill of right. I’m probably most ticked-off at the people who do all of this foolishness in the name of Christ as if he would approve!
I know events like these (it’s sad we have seen so many in the last 8 years), are heartbreaking and sad. Any I know many of you are tired of speaking up and speaking out against the injustices, but we can’t stop. The reality is – the opposing voices won’t stop and will make sure they are heard – LOUD and CLEAR! So we’ve got to do the same!
My charge to you (and myself)? Ask God how he wants you to join him in his work! Maybe he will lead you to get involved and active in your community. Maybe he’s equipped you with a resource or talent you can use to better society. Whatever it may be, don’t be discouraged by the giants around you, remember, you are already a victor!